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Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm fourteen years old and I have one of those classic young love problems.
I recently started liking this nice blue eyed boy. We've smiled at each other and make eye contact and he pointed me out at a dance saying that he knows me.
I guess I kind of just fell for him but I don't know if I should like him anymore. I really really like him but I feel like I'm not his type at all. He's like into that punk rock scene and I'm just kind of the girly type. I just don't know. :/
You don’t need to listen to the same music as anyone else, you don’t have to wear the same clothes, you don’t have to like the same food. Love doesn’t matter how much you are alike or not. It matters that you love each other, period.
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm fourteen years old and I have one of those classic young love problems.
I recently started liking this nice blue eyed boy. We've smiled at each other and make eye contact and he pointed me out at a dance saying that he knows me.
I guess I kind of just fell for him but I don't know if I should like him anymore. I really really like him but I feel like I'm not his type at all. He's like into that punk rock scene and I'm just kind of the girly type. I just don't know. :/
Oh, I love classic love problems; no matter the age :)
You don’t have to be a certain type to fall in love. love isn’t determined by the clothes you wear or the music you listen to. Though it helps find common grounds, it is a thing that you really need.
Just love.
Anonymous asked: How can I talk to this guy? I'm getting like super mixed signals. He'll look at me during class and we'll smile for abnormally long periods of times. And there's other things too. Like recently I feel like he's been trying to get close to me. Today, he kept passing by my desk and I think he said something to me like two of the times I was near him. I didn't look to see. Then, on his way out of class he always goes in between the desks to exit, but this time he went the way I do and was standing right behind me. but I think his friend told him I like him, so now I feel really awkward around him. That's why I can't even look at him. I want to talk to him though! I just really don't know how.
All guys give mixed signals! lol, jk. But seriously, don’t make the situation awkward that might distract him or make him start feeling awkward about it too. And I’d move fast too, guys don’t stay highly interested in girls long if they take long to get the initiative.
Anonymous asked: Hello. I am a girl. And this summer I started to like this other girl. Of course she lies girls too, so it wasn't weird. When she found out our friendship grew better. We'd talk everyday. She'd say things like I miss you and I want to see you. She'd call me things like dearest. She'd tell me I'm so cute and adorable. All our friends want us to be together. They want her to leave her girlfriend and not move across the states just so we can be together. I want this too. So one day I decided to ask her how she felt. Since then nothing is the same. When I talk to her, it's not the same. When I see her, it's not the same. I just miss the old days. When she'd make my day. I miss her hugs, her smile, just her in general. I have no idea how to make this better.
It might’ve been a summer romance. Granted you didn’t want it to end, but it still might have been the case here. I think they you need to first rebuild the friendship that became weird in order to get the times that you miss. Let me know how things go.
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"That’s the thing I want to make clear about depression: It’s got nothing at all to do with life. In the course of life, there is sadness and pain and sorror, all of which, in their right time and season, are normal—unpleasant, but normal. Depression is an altogether different zone because it involves a complete absence: absence of affect, absence of feeling, absence of response, absence of interest. The pain you feel in the course of a major clinical depression is an attempt on nature’s part (nature, after all, abhors a vacuum) to fill up the empty space. But for all intents and purposes, the deeply depressed are just the walking, waking dead."
— Prozac Nation by Elizabeth Wurtzel
Some more pictures of Tristan and me :) These are more recent I guess; I dyed again so it doesn’t look so blotchy blonde. Everyone always sends me personal messages about him and how he’s been doing and everything but here you go.
Oh, and I threw in my engagement ring picture so I can get some awes, lol.
Anonymous asked: I just wanna say that I love what you're doing here and you're great for doing what you're doing.
I have an anxiety disorder and I get extremely paranoid. Little things set me off into a panic attack. what i do is ill take a conversation and ill literally spend hours thinking about it, overanalyzing, worrying about what the other person was thinking. or ill replay embarassing, awkward, or painful moments over and over and over until i either start crying or feel like im going insane. im tired of beating myself up, but theres always this nagging feeling, reminding me of something awkward or embarassing that happened the other day. doesnt matter how insignificant it is, ill always worry. im miserable.
Awe thank you for the support! I’m glad people are finally not being so negative! I went through a week of bashing, and it sucked. I really am just trying to help others.
-Depression maybe? Anxiety has a LOT to do with depression. I mean most people with depression think of negative things over and over even if they don’t want to; they just can’t make their brains stop thinking of bad shit that bothers them.
If you are okay with taking medication: I’d see a local doctor, or even your family doctor. Tell him what you think about [not specifics or anything, just in general] and tell him you might be depressed. He can prescribe you some anti depressants.
If you aren’t okay with meds you’ll need some sit-down self help. I mean whenever you feel that you are highly depressed and you just keep thinking about something, message me what you’re thinking about [anon or not] and I’ll help you get through it. Talking to others actually really helps with depression, its just some people with depression dont feel like talking to others at all. Its part of the illness. I’m sure I can help you through it.
